Tips for Getting Life Off Default Mode.
Hey everybody. In this post I’m talking to you about Living Life on Default Mode.
So, what is Default Mode?
Default Mode turns Creativity into a Devils Plaything.
Living this way requires no real creativity. This Psychology Today Article claims that “Creativity of all types is a premier form of psychological adaptation.”
Now I’m not just talking about just writing, drawing, and all that kind of creativity.
Creativity is simply about using our energy to affect change in the world in any form. Well.. Change that goes along with the morals we adhere to of course.
If we create outside our morals, then there is the old saying “idle hands are the devil’s playthings.”
This is said to mean that when we don’t busy ourselves with productive things, we are likely going to start causing problems.
Addict Self-Destruction Begins with Default Living.
The problems can start innocent enough, maybe telling a few more fibs than usual. But, if the devil is allowed to play for too long the more the problems become increasingly troublesome.
I am an addict in recovery. Before i got clean, my problems were of high intensity. I was dying and harming those around me.
The years I was rapidly destroying my life, I don’t contribute to living life on Default. That was a different beast altogether. That’s what I call Addiction.
In recovery I have heard the Disease of Addiction described as having to live an amped up form of what it is to be human. This means, higher intensity of emotion, intensity of thinking, and intensity of desire. And lets not forget intensity of anxiety. By this logic, there also must be a high intensity of creative energy.
Actually, so much energy at times that I have no clue what to do with it. And all this energy, when not used responsibly becomes intense anxiety.
I just mentioned the addiction part because that is what I have to deal with! Many others have there own energy burden to bare. I am fully aware that every human being has huge pools of creative energy. Whether an addict or not, that energy needs to find its way into the world.
Above I said that Life on Default is life in the comfort zone. Or maybe more like the habit of reducing anxiety to as much of a degree as possible.
But seeking Excessive Comfort Seeking can Turn into the habit of living on Default.
The dilemma I find is that whether I choose to create, or refuse to, there is going to be anxiety.
When I choose to create, I get the anxiety up front. Because to create is to challenge ourselves, and doing things that are challenging can be stressful.
The funny thing is that more often than not, when I am sliding into Default Mode, I don’t even realize it. I may fool myself into thinking that I don’t need to challenge myself like I once needed.
Even still, whether I know I am holding onto too much creative energy or not, there will be psychological consequences.
Over time that “old anxiety devil” begins talking more loudly, and guiding me to act in ways that may not be acceptable.
Now I hope you aren’t thinking that I am talking about some sort of evil possession. Just, that the unused creative energy is going to find a way to do so.
We seem to be back full circle to the area where I am in danger of addiction rearing its ugly head. Also in the spot where most human beings are going to find themselves working with unproductive stress.
This is likely the time when poor decisions find themselves being much more easily made.
If you are following up this point I hope you are getting the picture that being sufficiently creative is necessary for good health. And not creating sufficiently is hard on humans of all mental and emotional capacities.
A balance needs to be struck between being comfy, and using our creative energies.
Committing to Live Life not on Default.
In the last post I put out titled “Making the Commitment to Live Life”, I laid out my history with making positive commitments.
To tie that article into this article I think we need a list. A list of tips for staying in the right headspace for making positive commitments, and keeping ourselves in the drivers seat of OUR CREATIVE ENERGY.
TIPS FOR STAYING IN COMMITMENT AND OUT OF DEFAULT LIVING:
- Surround ourselves with healthy people that will push us to take healthy risks.
- Keep ourselves out of Fearful Thinking.
- Develop Self-Awareness to get in touch with our own Consciences.
- Use a Therapeutic Writing practice to stay in touch with our emotional states.
- Set aside relaxation time to recharge our own batteries.
- Develop as much Gratitude as possible.
- Share the gift of our creative energies with other people, be of service.
- Teach all that we learn, to others.
- Allow ourselves to stretch our abilities to learn new things.
- Take plenty of opportunities to just breathe and be cool with the present moment.
Using these tips basically everyday of my life, I don’t know where I would be without them…
I have been able to guide a brain that so easily slides into insanity, and use it to create consistent success that I am very proud of living!
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